Iโm not sure there is anything that is quite what you want. The closest thing is one-dimensional restrained scan with harmonic bias potential, see https://manual.q-chem.com/6.0/Ch9.S7.SS1.html
Between this and (possibly) fixed-atom constraints, you might be able to engineer something close to what you want.
This does not exist within Q-Chem in this way, but I think the geometric equivalence is to fix two of the angles of any of the 3 possible angles 2-3-4/ 3-4-2 / 4-2-3. But I would have to ponder this a bit longer to be 100% sure.
But @jherbert does probably provide the best solution which is a restrained scan.
If you want to break one bond and form another bond, then the r12mr34 option that John has mentioned works well. I donโt think you can do it for more complicated types of scans (but it would be nice if one could โฆ).
Yes, I didnโt know about this choice in QChem, which is nice, but it would be great indeed to be able to include more distances in the reaction coordinate.
Thanks everyone!